i dont often get extremely personal on my blog. but this past weekend was a major milestone for part of my family.
the matriarch on my father's side passed away. she was 80 years old. i believe she had 15 children, 90 great-grands, 57 grand children a host of great-great-grands, nieces, nephews and so many more.
when i first got the text from my sister tues morning july 5, 2011, i was certainly at a moment of quietness. she had been ill for the past few weeks and her health was certainly failing. regardless of how prepared we believe we are, sometimes death takes us by surprise.
out of the hundreds of family members, i received the call to eulogize her homegoing. speaking in front of thousands comes easy. however, i was extremely nervous as a 27-year old, to speak regarding the life of an 80-year old warrior.
i can honestly say, i felt God's presence leading me in the right direction as i mounted and opened my mouth. if you know anything about black pentecostal churches...then you may have a good idea of how the eulogy went. im from the south and thats just how we do.
i will be back on tomorrow with some pictures, but i wanted to take take today to honor someone dear to me.
thank you for those who sent emails, twitter messages in my families time of loss. it means a lot.

53 comments:
Beautifully written, Rashon. I'm sure you made your grandmother very proud.
So sorry for your loss. How wonderful that you read the eulogy. My thoughts are with you and your family.
Brittany
How wonderful you could do that for her, and your family. I never spoke at my father's funeral and it's something I regret so much. Love to you and your family. Annie x.
So sorry to hear about your great-grandma. My deepest condolences. She was very much like my own grandma, who raised 16 children and had countless grandchildren. Such hard working women, I admire them!
How blessed you are to have such a large and wonderful family!So sorry for your loss.
Bless you, I spoke atn my Grandmother's service and it was one of the hardest things I've ever done. But I spoke (and sang) because she asked me to before she passed. What Neenie wanted...Neenie got! I have always been thankful for that opportunity to publicly express my love and respect for her. I offer prayers for your family as you celebrate her life and grieve your loss. I bet heaven is just a bit brighter now that she has gone on to glory.
So sorry to hear :( I can't believe you're only 27!
God bless your, great grandmother, Rashon. I am sure you were impressive and sincere and your family was comforted.
That is awesome that you were able not only to speak but also give peace and comfort to those who needed it, hopefully if you all's home going services are anything like ours give out a call for those to come to Christ. You did a great thing you honored your Grand and God!! praying for you all!
Clarece
definitely, respect to you and your family. And yes, it will always be true, one will never be prepared to lose a loved one. Going through a similar time myself.
I am so sorry for your loss. My prayers go out to you and your family. God bless!
Rashon I am sure your grandmother is smiling at you from heaven. what a wonderful tribute you have given to her.I can only hope that someday my grands will think as highly of me as you do your grandmother. Kathysue
We're all so very sorry for your loss, but to God be the glory for a lovely life well-lived. You'll see her again Over There!
So sorry, GWH. Prayers sent up for you and your family.
So sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts. I lost my grandmother almost three years ago now and it was very difficult but you really realize how precious family is. I'm sure you did a wonderful job with the eulogy.
You've had a lot going on this past week. I'm sure you did a beautiful job. Praying for you and your family.
I am so sorry Rashon about your family;s loss. My own Granny has been gone for 15 years, but her wisdom and grace live on in our family, as I am sure your grandmothers will. Losing a matriarch is life altering for a family. It must have been a real honour for you to pay tribute to her.
I am sorry. It's so hard to lose grandmothers! I know what you mean about speaking and having the dear Holy Spirit with you in a way you feel. God bless you and your family with peace in your hard time. :)
Hi Rashon-
My heart goes out to you - losing someone who has been a part of your life since the day you were born. God Bless you and your family. I will be thinking about you and know that your grandmother is smiling down from heaven feeling blessed that she was part of such a wonderful and loving family.
My best - Diane
Rashon,
My condolences to you and your family. Your great-grandmother appears to have been a very blessed woman.
Sorry for your loss, Rashon. Even when it's expected it's still hard to let go.
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. I'm from the South...and I am a bred Baptist...so you know I know how that eulogy got down:)
What an honor to eulogize your great grandmother:)
I am sure that the words of love and respect came naturally, as they always do when one speaks from the heart. Sorry for the loss of someone who obviously meant so much to your family.
So sorry Rashon. Your Grandmother is most certainly proud of you. All of her grandchildren have their Great Grandma to watch over them. Their own personal angel.
Kelle
xoxo
all those who mourn the loss of your grandmother are in my prayers...He IS a keeper!
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss Rashon. I know how much family means to you. My father -in-law died over a year ago at the age of 97. There are 5 generations in our family. When I think of him, I feel so blessed to have known him and to have been a member of his family for so long. I wish you and your family nothing but the best during this time.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family Rashon during your time of mourning. Her legacy will live on through the lives of those she loved & impacted with her wisdom and love. Proud of you for being strong enough to eulogize her. I'm sure you made heaven smile.
What a beautiful and heartfelt post. I am so sorry for your loss. Prayers and thoughts are with you today and always.
What a beautiful post Rashon! Prayers are going up for you and your entire family. What a blessing to have had the opportunity to learn from someone who has seen so much.
I'm sorry to hear about your loss, your grandmother sounds like she was an amazing woman. How courageous of you to speak at her funeral and what an honor as well.
Rashon, thinking and praying for you and your family. What a wonderful legacy your great grandmother left her family. Know that our time on earth is temporary and you will be reunited with her.
So sorry for your loss. Take care of yourself and your loved ones.
What a blessing to have many generations of support throughout your life! I'm sure you did an amazing job highlighting her memory :)
so sorry for your loss, Rashon. I hope you all are able to find ways to still cherish her.
that's wonderful! I read the eulogy at my brother's funeral. sad, but I was so glad I was able to do it for him.
Sorry to hear of your loss. I just lost my great aunt who was 100 and a warrior also. I am sure it was a spirit filled homegoing.
Rashon,
What a blessing to have a Great-Great Grandmother for 80 years. I am sure her life speaks for itself. To God be the Glory...
Sharnetta
So sorry to hear about your Grandmother. My deepest condolences to you and your family.
Wishing you and your family peace and God's blessings as you remember your precious Grandmother.
Wishing you and your family peace and God's blessings as you remember your precious Grandmother.
Beautiful post; wishing you and your family comfort in your time of loss.
So sorry to hear about your loss. Sounds like she left quite a legacy especially if there are more people like you in the family. What an honor it must have been...
I know all about the Black Pentecostal churches, so I'm sure the eulogy turned into a praise party. Big Hugs Lil Bro!
Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family! I'm sure you had a celebration of life for someone so dear!
Rashon, so sorry about your grandmother. I'm sure your euology was exceptional from a fine young man as yourself. I come from a white Pentecostal family (I'm a PK!), so I know just how you do it.
So sorry to hear about the loss of your grandmother. What a legacy to have a great grandmother for 80 years.
Sharnetta
so sorry to hear of your grandmother's passing but i hope it brings you comfort to know how blessed you are to have had her for so long.
xx
rashon my deepest condolences to you. from the sounds of it your great-grandma was a very special woman. comforting thoughts sent from india.
xo
80 years old...and such a large family...what a legacy. May she rest in peace.
Bless your heart, my deepest condolences. Getting up in fron of a group of people no matter how close you are under those circumstances can never be easy.
-Shanny
truequeen.com
Sending you good energy at this time. I'm sorry for your loss. You've written so eloquently here about doing her eulogy. I'm sure you brought peace and comfort to your whole family. I'm thinking of you and sending my best wishes.
I'm so sorry for your loss and sending this message so late. I've been out of town, with no internet access. We're so blessed when we have family who influence our lives for so long, but then it is hard to let them go. Even though we know they've gone to a better place, we're sad that we have to continue on without them.
I am so sorry for your loss. You made your grandmother proud.
I am so sorry for your loss. I am sure you made your grandmother proud.
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